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At Fit N Well, one of the greatest privileges we have is walking alongside young people who are often misunderstood.
Through our School Mentoring Program, we spend time with students who may be described as “disengaged”, “difficult”, “unmotivated”, or “challenging”. These labels can quickly become the story that follows a young person throughout their education.
But week after week, we see something very different.
We see honesty.
We see humour.
We see resilience.
Most importantly, we see young people who simply need an opportunity to succeed in an environment that works for them.
What Our School Mentoring Program Has Taught Us
Our School Mentoring Program is built around a simple belief: not every student learns, communicates, or engages in the same way.
By combining movement with mentoring, we create an environment where conversations happen naturally, confidence can grow, and students can experience success beyond the traditional classroom.
Over the past term, we’ve worked with both middle school and senior students through practical training sessions, mentoring conversations, and fitness education. While every session has looked different, one thing has remained constant, when young people feel safe, supported, and respected, they are willing to give things a go.
Throughout the program, we’ve watched students challenge themselves in ways that had nothing to do with lifting heavier weights.
We’ve seen students who were nervous to participate gradually become active contributors.
We’ve watched young people who had never boxed before step outside their comfort zones, while experienced participants naturally encouraged those around them.
We’ve seen students learn that success isn’t about being the strongest or the fastest—it’s about participating at your own pace and recognising that every effort counts.
These lessons don’t just apply in the gym.
They transfer into classrooms, friendships, work, and everyday life.
Our mentoring sessions are never just about exercise.
They’re opportunities to build:
• Confidence
• Resilience
• Self-awareness
• Critical thinking
• Emotional regulation
• Healthy routines
• Self-compassion
One week, our senior students explored how fitness marketing and social media influence the way we think about health and body image. Rather than simply accepting what they see online, they learned to ask questions, think critically, and form their own informed opinions.
Another week focused on self-compassion, helping students understand that showing up, even on difficult days, is something to be proud of.
These conversations are just as valuable as the workouts themselves.
One moment from this term has stayed with us.
During a kickboxing session, several students with previous experience were invited to demonstrate techniques alongside our trainers.
The change was immediate.
Students who are often recognised for the wrong reasons suddenly had the opportunity to demonstrate leadership, competence, and skill.
Their confidence grew.
Their peers looked up to them.
Their smiles said everything.
It was a powerful reminder that every young person has strengths.
Sometimes they simply need the right environment for those strengths to be recognised.
Perhaps the biggest lesson this term came from a student who found it incredibly difficult to engage.
Rather than forcing participation, we focused on building trust.
Week after week, we showed up.
We listened.
We created space.
Eventually, one of our practitioners recognised that this young person was ready—but only if the session happened on their terms.
The workout was adapted.
The space was quieter.
Between each exercise came conversation.
No pressure.
No expectations.
Just movement, connection, and trust.
For us, this perfectly captures what Exercise-Based Therapy looks like in practice.
It’s not about pushing young people beyond their limits.
It’s about meeting them where they are and helping them discover what they’re capable of.
The biggest takeaway from this term isn’t about exercise.
It’s about perspective.
When we stop focusing on labels and start focusing on strengths, relationships, and opportunities, incredible things begin to happen.
Our School Mentoring Program isn’t simply about getting young people active.
It’s about helping them experience success, discover confidence, and recognise potential they may not have seen in themselves before.
Sometimes, all it takes is one person who believes in them.
And sometimes, that’s enough to change everything.
Anthony Simons is the founder and lead practitioner at Fit N Well, home to the world’s first Exercise-Based Therapy (EBT) service.
With a background as a national champion pole vaulter and coach, Anthony’s expertise in physical performance led him to develop a deep passion for mental health. He is a qualified Strength and Conditioning coach and has been a Social Worker since 2011, working extensively in education settings.
Anthony started Fit N Well to create a mental health service tailored to young people who may not feel comfortable in traditional talk-based therapies. By combining movement with therapeutic methods like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Anthony believes in using exercise as a pathway to personal growth, resilience, and mental well-being.
Fit N Well was established with a clear mission:
"To ensure every young person has access to a mental health service that works for them."